The House is open Saturday nights and every other Friday. Please check our Party Dates for more information.

party dates

Please plan to be at The House by 10:30pm. If you cannot make it by then, please email us to cancel your reservation.

Upcoming Parties

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Saturday, January 17th @ 7pm
Rock Star & Groupies

Alright all you Rockers and Groupies. Time to break out the tight pants wild hair and gel. Get your rock on and you own personal groupie. We are going to do a Rock Start lip sync contest. Everyone will get a vote and the winner gets a great first place prize! PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room for rent. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com Don't miss the fun... get your reservation request in now so you can be in the drawing for the party. See you all soon! Blair THE HOUSE

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Friday, January 23rd @ 7pm
Friday Night Female Fantasy Night

MALES PLEASE READ: all males will be held to the upmost respect. Any disrespect shown towards females or other males. You will be asked to leave the party. We will allow between 50 guys, 25 single females and 25 M/F couples into the party. Your plan for the evening is up to you. Whether you would like to observe- to find 1 guy, 2, or 10- it is all about the ladies’ desire. We have quite a few accommodations that can meet your need, such as our colored card method- where you get cards to fill out your do’s and dont's and the room you reserve for an allotted time, then you hand them out to the guys you choose to participate in your wildest fantasy’s come true. Blair PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room for rent. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Saturday, January 24th @ 7pm
Spin the Bottle & Wheel Game Night

This is a new game we came up with and should be a lot of fun. Don't miss this one. Join us for a night where curiosity meets chemistry and chance takes the lead. Step into a playful, seductive atmosphere where one spin of the bottle chooses who you’ll connect with… and the second spin of the wheel reveals exactly what you’ll be doing together. Bottle decides the partner. Wheel decides the dare. You decide how far you’ll go. From flirty tasks to spicy surprises, every round is a mix of laughter, tension, and temptation. Whether you’re here to watch, play, tease, or take things further, this game is designed to spark fun, break the ice, and let desire unfold naturally. The last two people to stay in wins. Come open-minded, come excited, and come ready to let fate set the pace. Tonight, the only rule is to enjoy the moment—and see where the spins take you. I do want to thank all of you for your support. I love to have a safe place for people to enjoy life as they want. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Saturday, January 31st @ 7pm
Men's Dress Shirt & Stockings

Ok ladies, time for our Men's Dress Shirt and Stockings Party. So get your man's comfy dress shirt, some sexy stockings, bra or no bra, high heels and get ready to party. Guys come dressed nice for all of the sexy ladies here. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com Blair THE HOUSE

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A Safe Space to Explore

We are a on-premise party in lifestyle Raleigh, North Carolina

Reservation Requests Only

The only way to get into the party, is to send us a reservation request. Reservations are only made here on this website. We do not consider any requests from lifestyle websites a reservation.

Party Dates

No Pressure

There is absolutely NO pressure and no one is required to do anything that they do not wish to do. Great for new couples, soft swingers and experienced alike. No membership fees or dues.

A Safe Space

The purpose of our parties is to provide a place that is more than a traditional "swing club". It is an adult social lifestyle party, a place where people are free to explore their sexuality in a fun, but safe space social setting without pressure.

Communication

The House is many different things to many different people, however it is not for everyone. Your partner and relationship must be the highest priority in your involvement at The House. Constant, effective communication is essential to your success. We recommend that couples make joint decisions without pressure or persuasion. Any suggestions of coercion will not be tolerated.

Reservations By Request Only

We are not open to the general public

For your protection

Anyone that wishes to come to a party must sign an agreement form in order to be admitted to our party. The agreement form that you sign states that you understand this is a private adult party and you are not offended by nudity or adult situations. It also states that if you are a member of the media or law enforcement, you are at our club of your own free will and not here to gather anyone's personal information or make anyone's personal information/identity known to the general public. We do not sell or give out any of your information to anyone for any reason; we value your privacy as we do our own. There is no charge for our party, however we do accept donations to help cover the cost.